Is it True That A Guy Can and Will Cheat On His Woman Even When He Loves Her?

Since knowing I'll be apart from my husband for a while, some people have been talking. One of the topics that come up is cheating I've been thinking, what gives? I've heard the same argument before, about how men compartmentalize sex and love and it means different things to them. I'm still not convinced, some men make mistakes, we are human and that is permitted, some are just plain disrespectful of their partners.

Do you think a man who really loves a woman will cheat on her simply because he wants to have sex and is sex starved due to her celibacy rules, her pregnancy, or the distance between them?

The comment below came in under the Christianity and how it affects young women in relationships, read here was posted by a reader named POV guy, so obviously they are writing from the male perspective. Read what he says and let's discuss. You can vote in the poll to the right too.

It is CRITICAL you have the same point of view ad your spouse. My wife (girl friend it 9 years before marriage) wanted to wait so badly....I waited with her cos she was my best friend and I loved her to bits

Yet I slept with another friend of mine who was willing to go the whole 9 yards before I got married BECAUSE I REALLY WANTED TO HAVE SEX and 9 years was a long time to stay celibate considering we were just kids when we met.

Its the only time I've ever cheated on my wife and it has had a devastating impact on our marriage because I eventually told her. Every time she'll say, so why did I waste my life keeping it all for you. But truth is, we had differing perspectives - I didn't care so much about 'keeping it for me'.

          My point is if your man isn't on the same wavelength, he'll sleep around even if he likes you.